Standing outside looking at? Who has not experienced a feeling of being left out, not believing and being unwelcome? It happens to most conscious people somewhere on the road to adulthood … life outside the crowd. When you are there, you feel like you are your best friend and maybe your friend. Make a mistake, misjudge something important; how in the world did you find the lonely windows of life outside to look at?
You may be surprised to learn that it is more likely to be the one who has changed, you who have lost ideas or problems, you have reviewed and rejected them. People gain weight from others who are as they see themselves becoming. Perhaps one day, waking up, waking up and watching around, wondering what the world first wrote to you, these ideas, or this way of life. Just before you acknowledge what has changed, you are almost certain that you feel that you are no longer acceptable or welcome by those you have unconsciously rejected. Crowds, the masses that reject you are rarely the ones that have changed. They simply admit that you no longer accept them or their ideals and heaviest towards others who do.
It is the way of life when you read energy rather than listening to words. It is a much more powerful telecommunications transmission and one that only delivers the truth; it is much more reliable. Knowing or not, everyone is perceiving people's energy and circumstances around them and moving to those who support what they believe in. It takes a lot of courage or a significant life event to direct your purposes and your future. It's a miracle to change one's mind! But why; why is it so hard to change what you believe in?
When deciding to accept something as a positive truth, it needs to clear human mind. It is necessary to pour out some and all ideas that support what you have previously acknowledged as a reality and carefully examine this new one that you are gravitating to. For many, this means removing those beloved calm-colored glasses and reading a light handwriting that has been clearly written on your wall in front of you. What you once thought graffiti or gibberish must become truth to go out of the old and unhealthy ideology. It's not that easy to go through this process. This may have to reject things you have believed since childhood and redefine what really happened and why. It is a necessary step towards growing untouched, healthy, and ready to live life successfully, on its own. People and things rarely change; It's your perspective that has sharpened as you become challenging and ultimately all over again. You can see clearly from this new perspective.
You may initially feel the need to reject people who have been important for life; For some, this is a necessary step to break from old patterns. As time goes by, you will find that you can accept people and reject what is unacceptable about them. It is a method of accepting that someone can love and hate what they do or what they can do. It is a necessary growth process that enables others to respect other rights to decide, regardless of their own beliefs. It is tolerance; some benefits over a new maturity. No one must be right; rather, they must believe that they are on the right track to achieve their own dreams.
Of all these changes, self-esteem and the change of why you may not be as you once were in the old crowd. It was always your choice; you have referred to a new destination that you have deliberately chosen. This is a living life with good results.