Hundred years ago, homeowners will gather with guests in the living room of the home. Men would perform tricks to pass the time and entertain those who are attending. Today, the most beautiful trick can remind people's names.
If I teach you secrets of remembering names, you'll never forget me. I'm ready to try if you are.
Man's name is his favorite word. Most people think it's an amazing compliment when someone remembers something so personal about them.
Memory "tricks" is lost – albeit – impressive art form. It's especially impressive when another person does not remember you.
Remember the name of an individual seems to be reliably easy to do. Reducing a name is certainly easier than mentioning the lines in a play. Remembering a person's name is usually easier than mentioning ten-digit phone numbers.
But we often find it difficult to memorize names. Usually this is because we are not focused or because we are distracted when we first hear the name. If you go into a room, for example, you may know someone before you have to finish. Perhaps more than one person is talking to you during the presentation.
Being self-conscious is a persistent form of disturbance. Perhaps you are a volunteer type who is busy by the way your hair looks or the zipper is down. (Your hair looks good and your zipper is up by the way.)
Finally, the handshake that follows the presentation is ultimately disturbing. We are all well aware that the handshake can be too hard, too soft and too wet. Cold hand can be a lover too.
You have little control over such interference, but you have the option of facilitating "The Perfect Handshake" that lets you focus on remembering another person's name.
You may be better at remembering names with some tips and little exercises. Along the way, you will also improve your listening skills and discover some memory modalities that will be useful in other areas of your life. The first step understands the difference between listening and listening.
Hearing is different than listening –
Simply hearing the name of a person may be enough for you to remember it. However, you are likely to listen.
What is the difference between listening and listening?
You can easily detect an incredible hearing and listening experience during a normal shower. No doubt you immediately hear the water from the nozzle and cascading on the tile or pot. But while you wash, make sure the water sounds like it's falling around you. Try to identify seven or eight different types of sounds, such as water splashing on the shoulders or dropping the patch against the plastic sheet. This simple exercise will teach you how to recognize nuances. Now you really listen!
Here's another way to practice listening. When you run, listen to songs with a fresh ear. Listen to the musical instead of text. Try to identify different instruments in the arrangement. Try listening to only one of the devices, such as the bass guitar.
When you truly learn to listen, you should be able to eliminate unnecessary interference.
The Perfect Handshake –
I once asked a young man as he learned to shake hands. He said, "From watching TV." A handshake often occurs when promotions are published when names are announced. If the handshake is bad or uncomfortable, it can distract a person from what is said, making it harder to remember names.
I like a lot of people who do not know how to shake hands. Some, for example, have an aggressive, bone-crushing handshake. Other people have a passive, handbag in mortality. I'm teaching everyone to develop "The Perfect Handshake."
The best handshakes start with a link on the web. The web is the meat system between the thumbs and the index. Try to establish relationships between people and individuals you meet. Online submission ensures self-determination of grip that provides honesty and trust.
Try to start all your presentations rather than waiting to introduce. There are benefits to reach out first. The one who reaches out first confirms the power and effect in almost every situation. If you feel comfortable and in control of yourself, it's likely to focus on remembering names.
How to Remember Names –
One way to remember names (or something else in that respect) is to use a mnemonic system. Mnemonic ("m" is silent) is a minor help using organizations such as order or designation. There are many types of mnemonic systems, including visual, assembly, first character and arbitrary.
Visual mnemonics include visual signs or cues. For example, Greg has a green, so you might remember him as Green Greg. This visual method, of course, may fail if Greg is in the bridge next time you see him.
Mnemonics in First Literature provide easy formulas to remember names. The first and last name of Albert Anderson starts with the letter "A", so you could remember him as AA. If Al should always drink in his hand, AA might be particularly memorable.
Mnemonics in urban areas are more complex than the first letter system. Students use communication technology to prepare a test. Most people find it easier to remember the names of the planet Mars, Venus, Earth, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune by remembering the words of My educated mom, just serving Nachos.
Even if you're not a musician, you can easily remember the lines of musicians in the treble clef, which are E, G, B, D and F, if you recall the phrase Every good boy is fine.
Do you know the names of seven continents? You will be if you use a mnemonics assembly. Drinking aspirin after nighttime snack is a simple way to remember Europe, Antarctica, Asia, Africa, Australia, North America and South America.
Random mnemonics are unlicensed, but an effective tool to memorize names. Sometimes it may be easier to keep information when the memo is random or simply absurd. Most people remember how to adjust their clock in the cottage by using mnemonic "Spring ahead, fall back."
do you remember the following?
Thirty days has September
April, June and November
Everyone else has thirty one
Who has 28 in order
To Leap Year gives it 29
That is a terrible poem and we have never stopped trying to fix and improve it. The website Leapzine.com shows amazing 47 versions! The above rhythm and rhyme are unnecessary, but something about it works to help us remember how many days are each month. Even with so many varieties, this arbitrary mnemonic is useful.
My special secret to remember names –
The ability to remember names is a very useful network. I once got a keen participation by worrying about Roxanne Gibbs, editor of Nation, the prominent Barbados newspaper. I remembered her name half an hour after finding her and 30 others in the buffet line.
I use the "cluster" to study names. The purpose of compression printing is to print the brain with the name of the relevant eight to ten times within three minutes of their meeting. Listen to "Catherine" say her name. If you do not hear the name, please ask Catherine to repeat. Make a request immediately so you do not feel embarrassed by requesting clarifications later.
Then repeat his name by saying, "Catherine, it's nice to meet you." You now heard her name twice.
Get started using his name immediately. You could say "Catherine, is it Catherine with" C "or Katherine with" K & # 39;? "She could answer," Catherine with "C" & # 39; Now your brain has been labeled six times and you have shown it at least once. If anyone approaches you and Catherine, invite you to introduce the new man. "Catherine, do you know David? David, this is Catherine." At this point you have been tagged with Catherine's name eight times.
When it's time to excuse you, you might say, "It's been nice to meet you, Catherine," which makes your tenth time your name has been recorded. You're not likely to forget "Catherine."
Try to remember a new name with a few intervals in the next 24 hours and stretch the time for each experiment.
5 Cool Ideas for Working Room –
When it comes to meeting people is only one more impressive than the ability to remember a name and it's a talent to remember a lot of names.
Creating social interaction with cocktails and business receptions are skills that require communication technology, consistent discipline and desire for detail. Again, the key is to have a network that allows you to focus on a real connection with people. Taking a cue from my 5 Cool Ideas books, here are 5 cool ideas for working rooms.
1. Work parking for fun and profit.
When you work in a room, you do not have to heat up. Start connecting by walking through the parking lot. After all, anyone who emphasizes where you do may be in the same role, right? Well, these good strangers are attending the event so they can meet people like you.
Work a lot, the chat and the kyrtluna. Use celebrities like, "Are you excited about this event?" and "Have you met any interesting so far?" breaking the ice with your new friend Also work to the living room on the way out.
2. Use every opportunity to shake hands.
People are your biggest resource, so start a conversation. Commit to meet as many as possible in the first 15 minutes of the event. Hold your hand and teach everyone who walks to you.
Avoid the temptation to practice with someone in the bar or in the corner of the room. You can always return to interesting people later. Do not settle down on these events until everyone else does. Try to sit in the middle of the room. Find a seat near the headboard or tunnel or other high traffic area.
Do not drink alcohol if you are serious in remembering names and staying mental alert.
3. Networking is about them, not you.
Make the goal of focusing on conversation with the other person. Organize some conversation in advance and you will not be losing content. Keep your content positive and the suggestion. Avoid negative comments about people and do not talk about uncomfortable or out of color. Ask infinite questions that encourage others to talk about themselves and their interests. Be safe and thoughtful to introduce people to each other.
Always praise people as you introduce them. If you do not remember a full name, use the first name. If you are struggling to remember a particular name, please personalize the name and give it a third party.
4. Have a few lifts available.
An "elevator speech" is the first 15 communication. Its name is derived from the type of short messages that are replaced by lifts.
One version of your speech might be associated with your job. Another version could be targeted to your family. When it's time for you to answer questions about yourself, select the appropriate elevator to make a strong impression. Be short, obvious and original when you talk about yourself.
Make it easy for people to remember the name by being memorable. Touch your truck in pithy, challenging sound waves. For example, instead of saying, "I'm a teacher," smile and say, "I'm guiding heroes." Instead of saying, "I'm working in the daycare," get up straight and say, "I'm making memories."
5. Follow "Motivation."
When working in the room, collect business cards and literature from everyone you meet. In a calm moment, write an explanation on each map to remind you what you can do for the person or what they could do for you. Check your nickname and what you talked about so you can follow them within 48 hours.
The more accurate your comments are, the impression is the person will be when they receive your communication in follow-up.
The fascination of people with your memory is fun. More importantly, however, can help people feel comfortable. Remember, one's favorite words look like the least we can do.