Usually, just after New Year's celebration, many of us begin to look at the conclusions we made and if you are as many, probably more likely to look like a grocery list: you want more money, save money, learn talent (say to play the guitar), get a better job (so you can make more money) and find a lover (if you have not found one yet or your one is not as "loving").
A typical scenario may be like this: You are reviewing this washing machine list for new year's resolution and choosing a goal, say one of your goals is to be useful to the guitar. Then what you can do is you would buy a book about how to play a guitar, maybe buy a DVD and start practicing at home. If you are a little more powerful, you even started taking a few categories. But what about other goals, like making more money? I mean, this minimum wage is not really help unless the definition of making more money is that fifty cents will rise to prevent you … for about six months (of course, in your employee's workout course of course ).
So you start looking for another job to add to the job you have. Say you've found another job. If you are already working full time for a job you are at best you would probably work part-time in this new job.
Well, the gospel is now that you achieve one of your goals for more money. Bad news? Now that your most time is spending your one and a half jobs, you do not have time to practice your guitar so you stop stopping your guitar games. Hey, at least all the way around you, between your two jobs, you get your exercise, but now your life is awful because you have no life!
So you start looking for other ways to make money. You start looking at home care and let you say you've found a chance. But now you have to cancel one of your jobs (probably part time) so you can focus on building your new home, which is not making money yet to cover your costs and even if it was , you still have two jobs and no time to play your guitar and we will not even exceed other goals you've set for you.
The above scenario may sound fun and fond of some, but too often we find setting more goals than we can achieve. Now I understand that I do not say you should not have many goals, but start to prioritize them.
How did you do that? Start by choosing no more than one goal you think you can best achieve now (later, I will actually give you an exception to this rule). If you find that there are more than one goal you can reach right now, select the one that has the most positive effect on your life. It could be financially, emotionally, spiritually, whatever the goal would have the most beneficial effect on your life right now if you realized it. Once you have chosen goals, focus on one goal as the only goal you have.
That's right. Forget all other goals and focus on achieving the goal, then use momentum from the one goal to reach your other goals in your list. Return to the scenario above, let's review our goals. We have: to make more use, make more money, get savings, learn a guitar, find a better job and find a lover (or new, if that's the case).
Which, if you want to concentrate now, would affect your life the most? The answer, of course, changes from individual to individual. However, if this were my goal, money would have a greater impact on my life. Even though working to expand the job (or home business next to) is not as personal enough as learning the guitar, then this would increase the job or home business give me the money I need to start saving. I would also try to cut down on other things to save money (which is really the same as making money), such as going to work (if possible) and bringing my lunch instead of eating out.
This would also meet my other goals of taking advantage of me and keeping me happy, although I was advised to focus on more than one goal, as the two goals are consistent with each other. This would mostly be like killing two birds with one stone. In this case there are three birds. Now that you've created a comfortable savings code (and hopefully you've already risen) it's time to focus on the next goal. Maybe studying the guitar. When I became a guitarist, I could start learning for the money. Then, maybe, I could afford to work less in my work. I would then look at other goals in my list and use the same approach.
It is best to focus on one goal at a time and move to the next level without the goals being consistent (working for the same goal). This would give you the greatest opportunity to achieve your goals. Remember, it's not how many goals you set for yourself, but how many goals you reach.