Having an outstanding conviction of talent is one of the most important
skills for living in a fast-paced world today. We need
support and cooperation from others to help us achieve our
goals. To say "no man is an island" is an undeniable
Here are some great tips to influence and persuade
anyone you want.
1) Come home.
You must understand the situation after the perspective of
review. Emphasize your personal interests and focus on
Just pretend if you are then what would you do? What
would your opinion be? Then take the appropriate action that
would be useful to them.
Copy them. Check how they work, how they talk and how
they think. If they rub the forehead while they think,
act like them. If they speak at clear and slow pace, try
to do the same. This is called reflection.
At the right time, the people you reflect consciously
will feel better with you. It's like they see
However, you must take caution. Do not let them know
that you are copying them. They might interpret that as a
mockery and you will only be in trouble.
2) Be friendly and good.
Smile the brightest day. Make a hearty compliment to
raise your spirit. A little things like this count a lot.
Make them feel like when they need help or just someone
looking for you'll always be there to lend a hand. Those
would tend to be more receptive to people they trust.
If you want to ask your boss to pay, do all you can
to please him. Overdeliver and exceed his expectations.
Soon he will notice your efforts and become more than
happy to provide your request.
3) Give them convincing evidence.
Explain how your ideas or tips could be
the most effective technology to perform. Show them undeniable
proof that you have the best product with stories,
before and after the situation and accurate comparison with your
competitor. Just make sure all your requirements are true and verified
. Always keep a good reputation.
4) Meet their needs and wishes.
People are self-employed. They are initially concerned about
their own well-being for others. If you can prove that your
will give you more favorable benefits
than to you, they will probably accept it.
If you could focus more on their interests, aspirations, needs,
and expectations, you would satisfy your aspirations for
attention. In addition, it would show you do not care
about them. Mutual trust and respect is assumed.
This is most important to remember when someone convinces
. No matter how close you will be to them or
how overwhelming your proofs are, if they do not meet
"What's that for me?" test, your compelling endeavor will not
produce satisfactory results. Always keep in mind how they
will benefit from your actions.