Are you still playing on the pitch but want a simple relationship? With a number of divorced women over forty you might think they do not want to be married, or they do not want to be monogamous, but the reality is that they do not want to demand uninterrupted communication that does not last. And, superior, men over forty will the same.
Over forty relationships will be successful with mature, talented individuals who want to share their lives and live their lives. Are you ready to get good advice on meeting one and only over 40?
1. Be real.
Nobody assumes you're perfect. You can really have some personality bugs, stomach or back and over 40 your spouse will not only take care of it, but love you for it. If you're not perfect, they can be real too.
2. Do not compete.
Who wants a contest? What happened when you were comfortable with your own skin? Can you honestly say you want to compete with Barbie or Ken? If you're happy with who you are then your date can just relax and enjoy the evening without having to compete with who you want to be.
3. Know what you want.
If you accept a date with a city boy who knows nothing but a farmer, John Brown will satisfy you, you have problems from the beginning. Choose people you have something in common with, but acknowledge that you do not have to be in your hip.
4. Accept independence.
Find some mutual interests, but understand that you have both past and you have both the future. Be prepared to share the future, but realize that you can not and do not want to share everything. Accept the difference as a benefit and appreciate your time alone or with friends too.
When you reach 40 you can expect quality from those on the other side of the table. You should be able to communicate, understand basic ideas and understand current events. Intelligence and value are part of a package, if you do not have them, you will not receive them in the future.
You have both past, children, family and friends and you should be able to reciprocate them without competing for which family is better or loves them more. You only have them, and you share them. Time period.
7. Religion, politics and sex.
Yes, dear, these are matters in conversation and you are expected to participate as a mature adult with an opinion, not mental illness. If you can not handle these topics and keep a cold head, you might want to find out why and remove this part of your anatomy.