Divorce is never a fun point of view, but often you can succeed successfully, especially when both spouses are lovable and fair about the event. Unfortunately, part of our population suffers from personality disorder that affects human relationships in very negative ways. One of the most common, especially in men, is narcissism. In divorce, practices of narcissism – lack of sympathy, want to exercise, sense of rights – still increased and harmful. You may be able to understand some of your spouse's confusing, malicious actions and report that divorce will probably increase the situation. Here are 4 ways to understand the storyteller and protect your interests:
1. Beware yourself in legal matters. Rent a good judge who understands the activity of narcissism and the fact that your spouse can not possibly realize the same way as others. Do not take anything your spouse says "in good faith" as trust. Make sure that you follow the legal measures recommended by your lawyer to protect you. Create a copy of all relevant financial data, including but not limited to bank statement, investment statement, 401K statements, credit information, asset audits, credit card billing, insurance policy, payroll plans, mileage plans, tax returns, payment media, W -2, and car editors.
2. Make some basic emergency provisions. Make sure you have a credit card in your own name. If you need to apply one, do it now, while your spouse and your credit are still together. Open a bank account in your name and deposit a cash deposit if your spouse violates court orders and tries to stop you from accessing funds. If you do not want your spouse to know that you're making money, try using your debit card and request an amount over your purchase and place it in cash on your account.
3. Create records and documents all that may concern your case. This may be especially relevant if you are in custody of concerns about your native spouse's parents or if you live in a place where "error" is taken into account in divorce. Dates, dates, places and events.
4. Avoid communicating with your partner and do not listen to what he or she tells you about you. Your business will likely continue to threaten your self-esteem and cause you to ask your decisions. Be careful what you share to avoid using something against you during the process. If you have to interact with your partner, try to stick to businesses, such as the kids. If things become personal, stop the interaction or try to set content so that you do not affect it.